How to live In poor conditions, insidious apathy and decline, missed opportunity and regret, as well as fear of change and risk can poison a community to not care. This homeowners association hasn’t increased dues in 26 years. True story. Life is not a dress rehearsal. Live like you mean it.dad • • • • • This website is about our BODY. To read today’s post about our SPIRIT, click here. By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.